Success Begins With YOU!
Not your parents. Not your partner. Not your boss, and not your peer group.
Not even with a mentor, rôle model, teacher or your greatest hero.
Success begins with you.
It starts with your ambition, which is born of who you are.
It’s fuelled by your passion – no-one else can do that for you.
It uses your talents – and if you align them with the goals that mean the most to you, you’ll find they’re vastly greater than you’ve ever dared to dream they are.
It’s sustained by your desire.
There isn’t any substitute. You can’t unleash desire because you feel you OUGHT to go for that promotion, start a business, drop a suit or dress size or quit smoking. (We’ll come to how you can unleash it to do things like that in just a moment.)
Here’s the test.
Do you need a lot of willpower and determination to achieve the things you want?
Well, if you do, forget them. They’re not your deepest goals, and they won’t do it for you.
True desire is the very opposite of willpower and determination. It’s when you do something for the sheer love of it, because something deep inside you needs you to.
I know a singer who starts each day with vocal exercises. She’s worked her way through scales, arpeggios, songs and learning new guitar chords for at least an hour before she’s even had her breakfast.
Ask her how much she practices, though, and she’ll look blank and tell you that she never does! As far as she’s concerned, she’s having fun. That hour is, to her, the best part of her day, the part that she looks forward to the most.
Is that how going for your goals makes YOU feel?
If so, congratulations. You’re already on your way to reaching them.
If not – don’t waste your time on them. Even if you do get there, they’re never going to make you happy. Do what will!
So far, so simple – and that’s the way it’s meant to be.
The trouble is, a lot of generations-worth of bad conditioning gets in the way.
- You’re taught success is for the very few, and not the many;
- You’re told success corrupts – as if you had to let it!;
- You’re derided for a lack of talent, because your talents aren’t the ones your family wants to see, or else they’re just too close to you to see them;
- You’re discouraged by your friends, because they don’t want you to move ahead of them;
- You’re shouted at to get your head out of the clouds. Life is serious. You’re not supposed to do things you enjoy – not for a living, anyway. You should concentrate on something that provides security, however much you hate it (try telling that one to the folks who’ve lost their jobs this year! Everything humanity has ever made began with an idea… a daydream… a vision… someone whose imagination soared into the clouds, and liked it there. You can’t let anyone ground yours); or, most damaging of all…
- You’re told you don’t deserve success – that you’re not worthy of it. You’ve got no staying power (because you can’t motivate yourself to do things that don’t interest you? Oh, please!). You haven’t got the talent (see item 3 above). You have shortcomings (you mean, there’s somebody, somewhere, who hasn’t?). You’re just not good enough. Period.
Well, let me tell you something. Success is NOT a reward for being a perfect, flawless human being. It’s the natural result of knowing yourself – of clearing out all the negative-conditioning garbage that everyone’s bombarded with until they take a stand against it and claim the right to use their mind they way they want to.
It’s the result of identifying the things that make you happiest – often things that have been buried so deeply in your mind to keep them safe from other folks’ derision it can be hard even to identify and name them – and you’ll experience an overwhelming sense of joy, relief, release and freedom once you do!
It’s the natural outcome of allying your passion, your energy, your talents and the targets that you set, with what you want most.
This site is about helping you to clear the roadblocks from your mind, so that the road opens up, fast and clear, in front of you.
No matter how big and overwhelming those roadblocks might seem right now, there are tools here that will clear them for you – with the very minimum of effort from yourself.
Be warned – it’s an exhilarating ride!
What if a thing you NEED to be successful in can’t do that for you? What if you need to lose weight, or stop smoking, and you find the process downright horrible?
I promised you we’d get to that part later. Here it is.
If you’re focused on losing weight or stopping smoking, that is not your goal. No – suspend your disbelief and bear with me a moment here. It isn’t.
Your goal is to be healthy, energetic, vigorous and happy. To be fitter, and live longer. To see your kids (and theirs!) grow up and graduate, even if you don’t have children yet. To look better and be more magnetic. To stop your loved ones worrying themselves to death about you… and to save a ton of money you can spend in better ways.
To have those things, the things that matter deeply to you, you’re prepared to fight the urge to smoke or over-eat.
A negative goal can only disempower you – a positive goal inspires you to achieve it.
No matter how negative you might feel about a goal right now, this site has tools that can transform it and make it so much easier to achieve – and all you have to do is just… get out of your own way, and let them!
Here’s how it works.
Your mind has two main areas – your conscious and sub-conscious, inner mind. (You have a pre-conscious mind, as well, but that’s basically a bridge between the other two, and it’s those two that we need to focus on right now.)
Your conscious mind is good at logic, reasoning, setting goals and making choices.
All the rest is done by your subconscious.
From regulating how you breathe and when your heart beats to providing you with ideas and inspiration that can change your world, your subconscious does the lot. It’s much bigger than your conscious mind, and it can store virtually limitless amounts of information.
In most ways, that’s terrific – but it also stores up all the mistakes you’ve ever made, and all the criticisms that you’ve ever heard (or been afraid of hearing!).
Worse still, it stores up everything you’ve ever FELT about them – all the embarrassment, or shame, or fear, or feelings of rejection – and attaches them firmly to the context where they happened.
That’s intended to protect you by preventing you from doing the same thing again. For example, if as a small child you burn your hand by touching something hot, you never need to waste a second wondering if you should repeat the error. You’ll simply shy away from it without a conscious thought.
In the context of achievement, though, that has one major drawback. We ALL make mistakes as children. Rightly or wrongly, we ALL get criticised from time to time. We’re ALL ham-fisted when we first begin to write or draw, or learn to use a hammer, or to drive a car. We ALL have failures of some kind… and we’re all embarrassed by them.
And every one of them is locked in our subconscious mind.
How do we UNlock all those bad feelings and get them out again, to free ourselves for happiness, success, fulfilment and achievement? How do we restore our damaged confidence and self-belief?
By playing our subconscious mind at its own game – by feeding it an antidote to all that stuff.
The subconscious mind can’t reason. It believes exactly what you tell it.
That’s how it’s absorbed so many self-defeating things to start with – it’s believed uncritically just what it was told.
It relies completely on the conscious mind to filter information for it. If someone tells you something that you know is wrong, your conscious mind will disbelieve it and it won’t be stored in your subconscious.
That’s why positive thinking often doesn’t work – your conscious mind says something like, “Success? Achievement? You? Yeah, right.”… and your subconscious simply doesn’t file it. Nothing changes.
What you need to do is get right PAST your conscious mind – to get the idea straight to your subconscious.
That is the most powerful technique for changing minds that has so far ever been discovered. It’s the principle behind hypnosis. In the wrong hands, it’s brain-washing. Used without the knowledge or consent of the person that it’s being used on, it’s illegal – and quite rightly so.
Used in the knowledge of exactly what is being fed to your subconscious mind, and with your full agreement that you WANT to have the beliefs it will install, it’s the most powerful tool that you can use to change the way you feel about yourself and put you on the road to what you CAN achieve.
It’s also by a whole long way the easiest. You don’t need bother struggling to boost your willpower or get the better of procrastination. All you have to do is load a track into your mp3 player, plug in your stereo headphones, and just…
Let it play.
That’s it! The track lasts half an hour. You can play all of it as many times as you want to, or simply use it for a few minutes at a time.
You don’t even need to listen to it – it’s bypassing your conscious mind, remember, so you can just let it get on with it while you watch TV, read a book, talk (you only need to play it softly), take exercise, relax, or even fall asleep. You can use it any time you normally would use your mp3 player (the one exception is the track called Sleep Like A Baby. That’s to help you sleep… right NOW!).
What your conscious mind will hear is soothing nature sounds, like rivers, rain, surf, ocean waves, waterfalls, and so on. Embedded in the tracks at a level that your conscious mind can’t hear are positive statements, known as Affirmations, which because your conscious mind can’t hear them it can’t filter out. (You’ll find a list of all of them with information on the site about each track. That way, you get to know exactly what your subconscious mind is going to hear. Don’t worry – just knowing what they are won’t lessen their effect!)
That means those positive beliefs go straight to your subconscious mind. They’re scripted to help your subconscious mind to release all the limiting beliefs you’ve ever had about yourself, and replace them with new, positive, energizing beliefs that will inspire you and power you to success in what YOU want.
WHAT you want is not important.
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It’s up to YOU.
You have a choice. Your life is what you make it.
Success begins with you. Go for it!