Law Of Attraction – When It Doesn’t Work For You
Many people take up the Law of Attraction with great enthusiasm and work with it for a while, but find they don’t get what they want, decide it doesn’t work, and give it up.
That simply isn’t so. The Law of Attraction can no more stop working than the Law of Gravity. If it isn’t bringing you the things you want, you need to look more carefully at the signals that you’re sending out.
The Law of Attraction brings you what you focus on… but here’s the twist.
It doesn’t always see the things you focus on the same way YOU do.
The most common thing this happens with is work – the things you do to prepare yourself to receive the things you want.
Almost 2,000 years ago, people were arguing about the same thing – could you get what you wanted (in this case, to get into the Kingdom of Heaven) simply by believing that you could, or did you have to work for it?
The argument raged for a long time – till someone finally pointed out that it was the basic question that was wrong. It wasn’t about doing either of those things and simply ignoring the other one.
The true answer was that you needed to show your faith by doing good works, and carry out those works in the spirit of your faith.
It may not be the Kingdom of Heaven that’s your goal right now, but no matter WHAT it is, the same rule still applies.
You need to show your faith by working for your goal, and work for your goal in accordance with your faith that it can be achieved.
Don’t let anybody tell you that believing in the Law of Attraction means that’s all you have to do. A lot of people have believed that – and they’re generally the ones complaining that it doesn’t bring them what they want.
How could it? You get back what you give… and if you don’t give your commitment and creative energy, you don’t get the rewards of them!
It’s like wanting a balloon to float in the air but filling it with water instead of helium gas and imagining the Law of Gravity won’t know the difference.
You know perfectly well that wouldn’t work. You have to work with the Law of Gravity here. Fill the balloon with gas that’s lighter than air, and the balloon soars upwards instead of sinking like a stone.
So if working brings you what you want, why bother with the Law of Attraction?
Because working, on its own, is no more going to get you where you want to go than trying to use the Law of Attraction without doing any work. If it did, a hamster on a treadmill would be the richest creature on the planet.
The Law of Attraction brings you opportunities and success – provided that you put creative effort into it.
Working with the Law of Attraction means…
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Knowing what you want, and keeping focused on it no matter how many challenges you have to meet;
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Keeping a clear mental picture in your mind of successfully achieving it;
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Taking time each day to clear your mind of all distractions and listen to the new ideas and strategies your inner mind will generate for you; and
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Working with enthusiasm, energy, persistence and enjoyment, keenly aware that every step you take will bring you closer to exactly where you want to be.
Do those things consistently, and THEN see if you still believe the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for you. I’m quite prepared to bet you won’t be able to!
Veggie Diet – What It Has To Offer YOU
A veggie diet is widely believed to be the healthiest that you can have, but it’s often been portrayed as being faddish or boring – sometimes both.
Here’s the truth about a veggie diet – and it may surprise you.
- A veggie diet lowers your cholesterol and cuts your risk of high blood pressure, heart disease, clogging of the arteries, diabetes and some kinds of cancer, makes you less likely to have a heart attack or stroke, and has been proved able to reverse the effects of heart disease;
- A veggie diet gives your whole body a natural detox, getting rid of harmful chemicals like pesticides used in the rearing of cattle and chickens and the preservatives used in the production of their meat, and means you don’t consume those harmful chemicals in future;
- A veggie diet helps you to avoid obesity, with all the health risks and damage to your self-esteem obesity involves;
- A veggie diet gives you strength. Some of the world’s most powerful animals, such as gorillas, don’t eat meat;
- A veggie diet saves you money – LOTS of it;
- A veggie diet helps you save the planet. A United Nations report claims rearing cattle is accelerating climate change by causing 40% more greenhouse-gas emissions than ALL the trucks, cars and airplanes in the world: ;
- A veggie diet helps you ease the worldwide water shortage. It takes just 25 gallons of water to produce a pound of wheat… and 2,00 gallons to produce one pound of beef;
- A veggie diet helps you fight world poverty and feed the hungry. 750 MILLION people suffer chronic hunger, while each year farmed animals eat 760 million tons of grain;
- A veggie diet helps you to reduce world cruelty to animals. Many animals and most poultry are raised in factory-farms, where conditions are at best un-natural and at worst (which many of them are) a torture too distressing to describe here. If you wouldn’t want a guided tour of an abattoir, or to subject your dog or cat to factory-farm conditions, do you REALLY want to be responsible for doing that to ANY living creature?; and
- A veggie diet can be varied, satisfying, nourishing and totally delicious. Just browse the veggie section of your local supermarket, or google some veggie recipes, and see! (And if you STILL don’t believe you’d actually ENJOY a veggie diet, find out how you can actually re-reducate your tastes to let you LOVE the foods that are the very best for you…)
Comfort Zone? WHAT Comfort Zone?!
If you’re interested in personal empowerment, someone’s probably already told you that you need to break out of your comfort zone.
It’s sound advice. Being in a comfort zone means staying where you’re safe. You don’t change anything… until eventually the sameness stifles you.
Problem is, most people aren’t in a comfort zone. Those seeking information to transform their lives are in a no-comfort zone, and looking for a quick way out of it!
If you’re trapped in a nightmare of debt and desperation, a drink or drug habit, an abusive marriage or a job you hate, you’re not in any kind of comfort zone.
You’re in the very opposite – a no-comfort zone… but, like being in a comfort zone, it’s so much easier to stick with what’s familiar.
We often have more choices than we think we have. We don’t notice them because it’s hard to see past the familiar… or else we just don’t trust ourselves to take them.
It’s hard to see there are alternatives to debt, remaining overweight, a job you hate, living for the next fix or remaining in a relationship that’s turned abusive… because staying in the situation is familiar. Leaving it is not.
Two qualities make leaving a no-comfort zone so hard…
- Lack of self-esteem (you’re ashamed, afraid of other people finding out, don’t know where to find help or what might happen if you try, or you believe it’s all that you deserve); and
- Lack of self-belief (you realize you could change it, but you just don’t trust yourself to get it right).
Let’s get this straight…
- You don’t deserve to live a life of guilt and misery. Whatever mistakes you’ve made, you can get over them, start over and find success and happiness. Addicts have done it. So have people in terrifying amounts of debt, homeless people, abused children, battered partners… even murderers. No matter what your circumstances, SO CAN YOU – if you’re prepared to walk away from your no-comfort zone; and
- You CAN do it. You may need to learn new skills, or work an extra job for a while, accept that a relationship is over, move away or start a program… but you can break away from your no-comfort zone, whatever kind it is. Other people have, and so can you.
Getting Out Of Your No-Comfort Zone
Here’s a simple but effective action plan for breaking out of your no-comfort zone:-
- Identify the problem, and its full scale. Be honest with yourself. How much money do you owe? How overweight are you? How often has your partner been abusing you? How many extra hours are you working without pay? (or any appropriate question);
- Decide exactly how you positively want to change it (eg, “I want to be completely free of debt and have savings of….”, or “I want a mutually loving, respectful and supportive relationship where I feel safe and valued and can make my partner feel the same”, etc.);
- What you need to do to change your no-comfort zone into one of happiness, success and inner peace; and
- What you need to be to make those changes happen. To get out of your no-comfort zone you need make some positive changes in yourself, like gaining confidence and trusting yourself to get things right;
- Improve your action plan from the point of view of someone with the qualities you’ve listed. How would you do it if you had more confidence, knowledge, self-esteem and self-belief?; and
- Smash all the mental barriers to having all those qualities. The quickest, easiest, most powerful (and inexpensive) way is with affirmations delivered straight to your subconscious mind, like Super-Charge Your Self-Belief, or Turbo-Charge Your Self-Esteem.
You can only change your situation if you change the way you see it – AND the way you see yourself. Start seeing your situation as changeable and yourself as capable of changing it, and watch your no-comfort zone transformed into success and happiness!